Pembangunan pola fikir pada masa remaja

Many people my age when in the High School very mengambisikan a freedom for a lifestyle or social circle. Many misunderstood the meaning of freedom at the age of adolescence, so many things happen that have a negative impact of such a freedom.
Okay, before I ever went to a boarding school. A different scope of many teenagers. The number of rules to be followed to make me think and want to tell a little bit negative positive impact of an educational institution and uphold religious boarding in education. Since the number of rules should I follow to make me do negative things, how can it be? Yes, earlier I just live everyday with the family. Dipesantren I have to get used to live with my school friends that they are not just one or two areas of origin. The number of traditional or typical of their respective makes me refuse to meet at first. Just choose to hang out with the same region of origin. Not only that, because of the many regulations that make my escape from behind the school and chose to stay at home. Parents which I understand and continue to motivate me with the words "A lot of people your age do not pay attention to that provision when young religion is very important. Because when you're young that's when you're developing the mindset ".
In the end, after I passed a lot of processes and the development of thought patterns. I am very grateful to have the opportunity to spend a period of my education in early youth in the right place in my opinion. The number of regulations made me accustomed to the regular life even though many were not I could be implemented after I graduated. Patterned think properly I make the guidelines of my life, my youth went on in the manner and quality results. With the development of my thought patterns can be friends and hang out with the young else other indigenous tribes of my coming. Not easy to accept and respect someone that we ourselves will never know whether people are going to be friends we could also appreciate or accept us well. But, as long as we start a friendship with sincere and realize that we even are God's creation all will go well for our own walk and take the appropriate direction of the association that taught by the Prophet.


Hopefully brief story of the positive or negative impact of adolescence can be a benchmark for teaching. Or an example of "How can we build adolescence with quality time".